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“I don’t have the courage to undergo cosmetic surgery”- Linda Ikeji
Famous Nigerian blogger, Linda Ikeji has expressed her desire and fears in undergoing a cosmetic surgery.
The single mother of one shared a lovely photo with caption:
Wondering what I’d look like if I ever went under the knife. Hot, huh? šš. Don’t have the courage though!š©Ā
Linda Ikeji had a strained relationship with her baby daddy two years ago. Sharing her side of the story, the blogger wrote:
“……Then I fell pregnant. It wasnāt planned, it just happened; though we talked about having a child together just two months before I fell pregnant. He said something about putting a billionaire baby inside me and I remember jokingly telling him that Iām also a billionaire so our child was going to be a billionaire on both side…and we laughed. But after I fell pregnant, things became extremely weird between us. If I tried to explain what happened, I wouldnāt be able to because it was confusing to me. We went from talking about the pregnancy and being okay with it; he even suggested I go to Dubai for my pre-natals as he didnāt trust doctors in Nigeria, to literally not talking to each other anymore. Around when I was about three months pregnant, he did come to see my parents and actually became very cool with my dad. They were literally exchanging Whatsapp messages every day. He later agreed to a traditional wedding which he didnāt follow through and then he switched. He began to treat me with so much hate and aggression that I and my family had to cut him off completely.
“To be honest if anybody had told me when we met three years ago, considering how deeply we cared for each other that I would fall pregnant two years later and he would completely turn his back on me for most part of my pregnancy, I never would have believed it but thatās what happened. I had to draw strength from myself, my family and close friends. And Jayce…oh my son Jayce, he was my biggest strength. It was almost as if he knew his dad was acting up so he came through for his mum. He was gentle with me when I was carrying him. I had an extremely easy pregnancy. I pushed him out under 3 mins and was in the labour room for less than 30 minutes. And then my snapback was amazing. Three weeks later, it was almost as if Iād never been pregnant. Jayce was my soldier when his dad turned his back.
“But still, I have absolutely no iota of regret meeting Sholaye. Gosh, have you seen Jayce? How can I regret that? God doesnāt make mistakes. If you believe that youāre always led by God like I believe then I have to believe that God led me to this man for whatever reasons best known to Him. I thought God sent him as my life partner but I guess He just used him as a vessel for my greatest blessing. Now his part in my story is over. I know when to put my hands up and surrender. That God brought someone significant into your life doesnāt mean they are supposed to follow you throughout your lifeās journey. We should learn to know when peopleās part in our story is over. Donāt fight for closure, donāt ask for explanations, donāt chase answers, just let them go and know that if God meant for you to have them in your life, He would have given them to you. Sometimes people just come to serve a purpose in your life and are not meant to stay and thereās no point holding on to them. This one is done and dusted. Itās just Jayce and I now moving forward and I know life will be beautiful for us.
