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“Why you should be secretive to your partner”. – Wife of Basket Mouth, Elsie Okpocha reveals.
Elsie Uzoma Okpocha, Entrepreneur and wife of popular Nigerian comedian, Basketmouth has addressed women who love to share everything with their partners especially things about their female friends.
She insisted that women should always uphold the code of secrecy on information their female friends share with them. She went on further to highlight the implications of sharing too many details with one’s husband or boyfriend about female friends.
According to her, when a woman discusses her female friends with her partner, she automatically loses her respect.
In her own words:
“Hey guys! This is for wives and girlfriends that love to tell their partners everything. I mean it’s ok but y’all need to chill. I tell my husband everything, I don’t hide anything from him you know I love him so much so we don’t keep secrets from each other. It’s not everything you tell him. It’s not everything he needs to know especially about your girl friends.
Cos you know how girls like to talk a lot when they are together? It could be marital issues, relationship issues, general issues. And there are those friends that talk about everything because it makes them feel better.
Now the thing is….Your husbands, boyfriends don’t need to know the secrets your girl friends have confided in you. There’s no need to know that much. It’s okay to share the celebrations but not these things that should not be shared.
Because you know what this does eventually? It tends to backfire. Because one day, you’ll just hear your husband say, ‘That girl, avoid her.’ Or you see him disrespecting her because of what you’ve told him. So ladies, learn to use your sieve. It’s one of the things you need to know. I just don’t share.”
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