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“Alex Ekubo didn’t touch me for 5 years” – Fancy Acholonu reveals in latest interview
In a recent online interview, the US-based model, Fancy claimed her former fiance, actor Alex Ekubo, refused to be intimate with her in the five years they dated, saying he wanted to be celibate because of his religious beliefs.
Fancy said his refusal to touch her was difficult for her to understand and confused her. And it also messed with her self-esteem.
In an interview with Stella Dimoko Korkus, the model said;
“I tried my best. He wanted to get back with me as much as I did. We’ve been at this for one year. But he felt since I broke up with him I should do more of the work. I was fine with that but his methods are cruel and constantly public. His s€xuality is not the reason I broke up with him. I’m very open minded so regardless of what he prefers, love is love for me.
I loved him for his personality and heart nothing more. He didn’t want to be with me intim@tely which was confusing and difficult for me to understand especially for 5 years so it did affect my self esteem as I kept myself for him and when he would che@t with curvy women he wouldn’t perform with them either so I don’t know, I can’t confirm or deny his sexuality but for me, I loved him despite all and he still found ways to hurt me.”
“When I met him I didn’t have much experience so it was easy to convince me that his decision was because of religion. But as he would constantly che@t and yes I caught him, it would hu/rt me because that’s not part of the religious believe he made our celibacy to be.
Honestly this whole thing has been complicated beyond words so it’s unhealthy for me to continue this relationship. I guess I needed this post he begged me to do so that i can see his intention was just to clean up his image.”
She also spoke about her reasons for ending the relationship. In her words:
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There are so many reasons I ended it. It’s very personal. I don’t want to embarrass him or myself further. If I say why, people will say well how obvious was that and you ignored the red flags. We tried to reconcile, I asked for us to do it privately, get counseling , he disagreed. Even his family and friends said privately would be better but he needed the grand gesture apology so he can have the grand wedding he wants again. Not caring the issues were still there.
Everything is about social media for him, and somehow it’s now looking like I want the attention when this is the WORST attention I’ve ever had in my life. I have a full time job, clients, family businesses etc this was what I wanted to avoid. He ruined every chance of us being back together
by thinking humiliating me will make me still love him.