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“God blinded my eyes from seeing Adesua Etomi until i was ready for Marriage” – Banky W
Nigerian singer, Banky W has revealed he didn’t notice his actress wife, Adesua Etomi until he was really ready for marriage.
The music star whose real name is Bankole Wellington, revealed this while discussing why couples endure marriage instead of enjoying their marriage in the recent edition of Black Box interview.
Speaking to OAP Ebuka Obi-Uchendu, Banky said;
“I HONESTLY THINK THAT GOD BLINDED MY EYES UNTIL I WAS IN A PLACE WHERE I WOULD BE WORKING TO BE THE TYPE OF MAN THAT WOULD TREAT HIS DAUGHTER PROPERLY. UNTIL I GOT TO THAT PLACE, GOD DIDN’T LET ME SEE HER.”
“SO I SAW HER, YOU KNOW, AND I WAS LIKE, ‘NICE GIRL, FINE GIRL, OKAY NICE TO MEET YOU,’ AND I KEPT MOVING. I WAS IN A DIFFERENT PLACE IN MY LIFE. AND MEN KNOW, MEN ALWAYS KNOW WHEN WE ARE READY. AND UNTIL YOU’RE READY, YOU’RE NOT READY.”
Going further, Banky W noted that when a man is not ready for marriage, he is simply not ready.
He added that if such man ventured into marriage, he will end up feeling miserable in the union.
“AND IF YOU’RE NOT READY, IT DOESN’T MATTER HOW GREAT SOMEBODY IS, IF YOU AS A MAN, YOU’RE NOT READY TO SETTLE DOWN AND BE DEDICATED OR WHATEVER, YOU’RE JUST GONNA MESS IT UP OR END UP IN THIS MISERABLE SITUATION.”
“AND THAT’S WHY I THINK TODAY THAT MARRIAGE HAS TURNED INTO THIS THING WE ENDURE RATHER THAN ENJOY.” He said.
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