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“Why I forgave my Husband when he cheated twice” – Wife of Ex Oyo State Governor, Florence Ajimobi
Former Oyo state First Lady, Florence Ajimobi, has opened up to about why she forgave her husband after he cheated on her more than once or twice.
Speaking with her daughter Abisola Kola Daisi during an Instagram live chat, the former Oyo state first lady disclosed that her husband, former Oyo state governor, Abiola Ajimobi cheated on her multiple times. She also explained how she handled his infidelity.
Florence Ajimobi also spoke about marriage, motherhood, growing up as a love child, and the only condition under which divorce can be considered.
She said:
“Even on one or two occasions that I’ve caught him cheating, he will apologize. And once he apologizes and it ends, I never go back to them again, I never Bisola, I never ever discussed it because, what I’m saying is, to err is human, to forgive is divine.
“We are friends. Even as a wife, sometimes I fall below his expectations. Sometimes we do things that are even worse than cheating.”
“Like what? What is worse? What can I do that is worse than cheating?” Her first child Abisola Kola Daisi asked.
And the former First Lady of Oyo State, Florence Ajimobi responded; “I know some women that build houses without their husband knowing. It’s as bad. It’s as bad. Why would you do such a thing without telling him. Why?
“So, there are different things we do. It is not just cheating that is bad in a relationship. There are some people that you know, they keep dirty secrets and they don’t tell their husbands.
“So, if you say somebody is your friend. Why are you keeping things?
“Sometimes, when I do something, sometimes, I can’t even face my husband. I send him messages when I know I’ve done something because I don’t want to see the hurt on his face, I just write it down. I send him a text and he replies me that ‘it’s OK, Flory, we can talk about it’.”
“But I think most men, when they cheat, they just have sex with the woman. And the women are smart enough. They know what they want. They have sex with them and they… When a man is having a relationship with a woman he loves, he’s making love, he’s not having sex.
“So if you’re cheap enough, give yourself to my husband. He’s mine. Whatever is mine will not go away. He will use you and come back to me.
“I tell people, it’s my leftover you’re eating. He’s my leftover. I’ve eaten the better part of him. I get the chunky meat, eat the bone, it’s none of my business. And you’re doing it hush hush hush hush. You’re not enjoying it because you’re stealing. You’re looking, ‘is somebody there? Am I going to be caught?’
“So, he’s my husband, he can’t go anywhere else…”
